The Comeback Quotient

HIIB?, a Trick for Being Present, and Becoming More Joyous


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4 THOUGHTS

1. High-Intensity Interval…Breathing?

Here’s why we should add intensity of intention to mindful breathing:

“[T]he more intensely you are attending to the present moment, the more temporary freedom you gain from regrets about the past and worries about the future. Furthermore, the more intensely you practice, the longer the benefits linger after the practice.”

- Chade-Meng Tan, Joy On Demand

So, the more intensely you focus on the breath, the greater joy you experience, and the longer the benefits linger. Sounds good to me.

Practically, one way of doing this is through what we might jokingly call High-Intensity Interval Breathing: Instead of a continuous 20-minute mindful breathing session, break it into four “intense” 4-minute sessions, with a 1-minute break between each.

Give it a try and see if you like it 🙏

2. Make a Good First Impression

“You never get a second chance to make a first impression.”

– Will Rogers

Each morning, when we wake up, we meet a new day. We can make a good first impression by doing our breathing practice first thing.

The day will like you more (and treat you kinder).

***

P.S. Aim for consistency: Each day you meet is different, and today doesn’t remember yesterday’s introduction 😊

3. Picturing Trampolines: A Trick for Staying Present

Here’s a trick the staff psychologist for British Rowing offered in the 2003 World Championships to help the rowers focus on the process instead of the outcome:

“The rowers were instructed to picture a trampoline at the finish line, tipped onto its side so that any thought of theirs that jumped ahead to the outcome would bounce back to the present moment. They bought into it and it worked.”

– Matt Fitzgerald, The Comeback Quotient

That seems like it would be a helpful visualization in all of life 👏

4. Becoming More Present, Joyous, and Warm-Hearted

“The benefits of quieting the mind include becoming more calm and clear. But resting in pure awareness goes a step beyond this sense of quiet. Richard Davidson, who studied the brains of highly advanced yogis who had attained this level, tells me that he had never met any group of people so present, joyous, and warm-hearted.

- Daniel Goleman, Why We Meditate

In my opinion, that last sentence answers the book title: We meditate (or do breathing, yoga, etc.) to become more present, joyous, and warm-hearted.


1 Quote

I can only meditate when I am walking, when I stop I cease to think; my mind only works with my legs.”
— Jean-Jacques Rousseau

1 Answer

Category: Stress Hormones

Answer: This “breathing exercise” has been shown to significantly reduce cortisol, one of the primary stress hormones.

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Question: What is laughter?

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In good breath,

Nick Heath, T1D, PhD
“Breathing is the compound interest of health & wellness.”


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How Gratitude Works, Fast Breathing, and Coming Home in a Loving Way


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4 THOUGHTS

1. Mindful Breath Awareness Improves Impulsivity and Brain Dynamics

“In sum, we show that a relatively short period of mindfulness practice…significantly changes brain dynamics related to the internal monitoring of response conflicts and related errors.”

Pozuelos et al. (2019)

Using cognitive tests and EEG, this study found that practicing mindful breath awareness for 17 minutes, five days a week, for three weeks improved impulse control and brain dynamics related to metacognition.

As the authors say, “These findings contribute to clarifying the mechanisms through which mindfulness meditation practice promotes positive outcomes.” 👏👏👏

2. That’s How Gratitude Works…

“That’s how gratitude works, transforming not reality itself but how reality is seen.”

– Matt Fitzgerald, The Comeback Quotient

If you’ve ever finished a mindful, slow breathing practice (or any contemplative practice) and noticed that everything around you seems more peaceful and beautiful, this is why.

These practices naturally cultivate gratitude, which doesn’t change reality, but how reality is seen.

3. Fast Walking as a Breathing Metaphor

Two questions for you:

  1. Have you ever walked really fast to catch a flight?

  2. Have you ever walked fast just as exercise?

The first creates stress and anxiety.

The second creates attainment and flow.

Same process, different outcome.

That’s what deliberate versus unconscious fast breathing is like.

If you’re doing it purposefully and safely as an exercise, it can be beneficial (and even life-changing for some).

But if you’re doing it unconsciously or to “get somewhere fast,” it’ll have the opposite effect.

4. The Only Thing that Works for Improving Attention

“You cannot simply decide to pay attention ‘better.’ No matter how much I tell you about how attention works and why, and no matter how motivated you are, the way your brain pays attention cannot be fundamentally altered by sheer force of will…Instead, we need to train our brains to work differently. And the exciting news is: at long last, we’ve actually figured out how.”

- Amishi Jha, Ph.D., Peak Mind

And what did they figure out works? Mindfulness of breathing. As she says, “mindfulness training was the only brain-training tool that consistently worked to strengthen attention across our studies.”


1 Quote

Breath is your means of bringing yourself back home to your body in the most loving way, to tailor your connections to yourself so that you feel less fractured and fragmented and more solid and whole.”
— Jill Miller

P.S. This came from Jill’s new book, Body by Breath.


1 Answer

Category: Meta-Awareness

Answer: The ability to monitor your actions and progress toward a predefined goal is known as this metacognitive skill.

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Question: What is response monitoring?


In good breath,

Nick Heath, T1D, PhD
“Breathing is the compound interest of health & wellness.”


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Element of Choice, Less Effort, and Focus on Enjoyment for Better Results


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4 THOUGHTS



1. Focus On Enjoyment (but only if you want better results)

“Literally anything you can do to augment your enjoyment of training will facilitate a process focus and lead to better performance. If you will enjoy a given workout more in location A than in location B, you'll get more out of it in location A. If you will enjoy a workout more with training partner C than with training partner D, you'll get more out of it with training partner C. If you will enjoy a given workout more with music than without, you'll get more out of the workout with music. And so on.”

- Matt Fitzgerald, The Comeback Quotient

I think this applies to our breathing, mindfulness, or any contemplative training: focus on enjoyment, and you’ll get way more out of it.

2. Jimi Hendrix and Breath Awareness

I bet when Jimi Hendrix picked up his guitar, it changed his whole demeanor.  Just holding it likely put him in a different state.

That’s what breath awareness is like. 

Sure, we can breathe in specific ways to tune our minds for certain thoughts or our bodies for certain states.  But just noticing your breath immediately transforms you, like a musician holding their instrument.

So even if you don't change it, make sure you at least “pick up” your breathing several times today 🙏

3. Less Perceived Effort: Slow Breathing Helps with Both Layers

“Perceived effort actually has two layers. The first layer is how the athlete feels. The second layer is how the athlete feels about how she feels. The first layer is strictly physiological, whereas the second is emotional, or affective.”

- Matt Fitzgerald, How Bad Do You Want It?

This passage pertains to sports, but it applies perfectly to perceived effort in life in general. And slow breathing helps with both layers:

  • First Layer: Slow breathing improves how you feel by reducing physiological stress (cortisol, sympathetic activity, brain waves).

  • Second Layer: Slow breathing helps you feel better about how you feel by improving your emotional health.

So practice some mindful, slow breathing and watch your perceived effort in everyday tasks go down, allowing you to live a better life.

***

P.S. If you want to learn more about breathing for better emotional health, consider signing up for my 4-week course starting Aug 20th.

4. Element of Choice: Meditation’s Benefits for Your Whole Life

“If I had to say in one or two sentences what the benefits of meditation were for your whole life—for your emotional life in particular—it is that meditative practice helps introduce the element of choice. … We cannot necessarily control what the outside world offers us, but we can control how we respond to it. That is the element of choice, and choice creates freedom.”

- Erika Rosenberg, Ph.D., The Healing Power of Meditation

I have nothing to add but a few of these 👏👏👏


1 Quote

It takes only two seconds, three seconds, to breathe in, to bring mind home to your body. And there, mind and body together, we are established in the here and the now, and you get in touch with the wonders of life, the Kingdom of God.”
— Thich Nhat Hanh

P.S. This was transcribed from this wonderful 58-sec clip.


1 Answer

Category: Meditation Retreat

Answer: Participating in a meditation retreat has been shown to positively impact this metric, representing an increase in well-being, mindfulness, empathy, and ego resiliency and a decrease in depression, anxiety, neuroticism, and difficulties in emotion regulation.

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Question: What is adaptive functioning?

P.S. I found this in The Healing Power of Meditation.


In good breath,

Nick Heath, T1D, PhD
“Breathing is the compound interest of health & wellness.”


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