How Bad Do You Want It

Element of Choice, Less Effort, and Focus on Enjoyment for Better Results


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1. Focus On Enjoyment (but only if you want better results)

“Literally anything you can do to augment your enjoyment of training will facilitate a process focus and lead to better performance. If you will enjoy a given workout more in location A than in location B, you'll get more out of it in location A. If you will enjoy a workout more with training partner C than with training partner D, you'll get more out of it with training partner C. If you will enjoy a given workout more with music than without, you'll get more out of the workout with music. And so on.”

- Matt Fitzgerald, The Comeback Quotient

I think this applies to our breathing, mindfulness, or any contemplative training: focus on enjoyment, and you’ll get way more out of it.

2. Jimi Hendrix and Breath Awareness

I bet when Jimi Hendrix picked up his guitar, it changed his whole demeanor.  Just holding it likely put him in a different state.

That’s what breath awareness is like. 

Sure, we can breathe in specific ways to tune our minds for certain thoughts or our bodies for certain states.  But just noticing your breath immediately transforms you, like a musician holding their instrument.

So even if you don't change it, make sure you at least “pick up” your breathing several times today 🙏

3. Less Perceived Effort: Slow Breathing Helps with Both Layers

“Perceived effort actually has two layers. The first layer is how the athlete feels. The second layer is how the athlete feels about how she feels. The first layer is strictly physiological, whereas the second is emotional, or affective.”

- Matt Fitzgerald, How Bad Do You Want It?

This passage pertains to sports, but it applies perfectly to perceived effort in life in general. And slow breathing helps with both layers:

  • First Layer: Slow breathing improves how you feel by reducing physiological stress (cortisol, sympathetic activity, brain waves).

  • Second Layer: Slow breathing helps you feel better about how you feel by improving your emotional health.

So practice some mindful, slow breathing and watch your perceived effort in everyday tasks go down, allowing you to live a better life.

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4. Element of Choice: Meditation’s Benefits for Your Whole Life

“If I had to say in one or two sentences what the benefits of meditation were for your whole life—for your emotional life in particular—it is that meditative practice helps introduce the element of choice. … We cannot necessarily control what the outside world offers us, but we can control how we respond to it. That is the element of choice, and choice creates freedom.”

- Erika Rosenberg, Ph.D., The Healing Power of Meditation

I have nothing to add but a few of these 👏👏👏


1 Quote

It takes only two seconds, three seconds, to breathe in, to bring mind home to your body. And there, mind and body together, we are established in the here and the now, and you get in touch with the wonders of life, the Kingdom of God.”
— Thich Nhat Hanh

P.S. This was transcribed from this wonderful 58-sec clip.


1 Answer

Category: Meditation Retreat

Answer: Participating in a meditation retreat has been shown to positively impact this metric, representing an increase in well-being, mindfulness, empathy, and ego resiliency and a decrease in depression, anxiety, neuroticism, and difficulties in emotion regulation.

(Cue the Jeopardy! music.)

Question: What is adaptive functioning?

P.S. I found this in The Healing Power of Meditation.


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Nick Heath, T1D, PhD
“Breathing is the compound interest of health & wellness.”


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Finding Answers Within, Tree Tops, and How to Breathe for Joy


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1. How to Breathe for Joy

“To our knowledge, this is the first demonstration that the alteration of respiration is sufficient to induce emotion.”

- Respiratory Feedback in the Generation of Emotion

This groundbreaking study (21 years ago 😊) was the first to find that breathing in specific ways can induce the corresponding emotional state. Meaning we can change our breath to change how we feel.

For example, to elicit joy, they told participants to “Breathe and exhale slowly and deeply through the nose; your breathing is very regular and your ribcage relaxed.”

Try it for ~2 minutes and see how you feel 🙏

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2. Finding Answers to Life’s Most Pressing Questions

“An athlete gets herself into trouble when, instead of listening to her body and its intuitions, she begins to worry about what her competitors are doing and tries to “outwork” them. The answers to the most pressing questions that athletes face in their day-to-day quest for improvement (“Should I push? Should I back off?”) lie within them.”

– Matt Fitzgerald, How Bad Do You Want It?

I believe this idea applies to all of life, not just athletics: Nine times out of ten, the answers to the most pressing questions we face in our quest for continuous improvement lie within us.

3. How to Deal with Life’s Storms (according to Thich Nhat Hanh)

“When a storm comes up in you, get out of the treetop and go down to the trunk for safety. Your roots start down at your abdomen, slightly below the navel…Put all your attention on that part of your belly, and breathe deeply. Don’t think about anything, and you’ll be safe while the storm of emotions is blowing. Practice this every day for just five minutes, and after three weeks, you’ll be able to handle your emotions successfully whenever they rise up.”

- Thich Nhat Hanh, Peace is Every Breath

I love this analogy. The next time we’re dealing with an emotional storm, we’ll be wise to remember to “get out of the treetop and go down to the trunk for safety.” 👏👏👏

4. Your Breathing Style Determines Your Stability in All of Life

“The larger point is that someone’s breathing style gives us insight into their broader stability strategy, the set of patterns that they have evolved over the years to help them get by in the physical world. All of us have these strategies and 95% of the time…they work fine. But once you add different stressors…those strategies, those instinctive physical reactions, can create problems. And if our respiration is also taxed, those other problems will be magnified.”*

– Peter Attia, MD, Outlive

Although Dr. Attia is discussing the role of breathing for physical stability, isn’t it amazing that this idea is equally applicable to mental, emotional, and spiritual steadiness too?

Our breathing style determines our stability in all of life.


1 Quote

By consciously slowing down the breath and making it rhythmic so that consciousness is not disturbed by it, we can achieve corresponding tranquility.”
— Hiroshi Motoyama

P.S. I found that great quote here.


1 Answer

Category: Breathing & Emotions

Answer: Nasal breathing stimulates this part of the brain, which communicates with emotional areas like the amygdala and hippocampus.

(Cue the Jeopardy! music.)

Question: What is the olfactory bulb?


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Nick Heath, T1D, PhD
“Breathing is the compound interest of health & wellness.”


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Better Mental Health, Letting Go with Gratitude, and Is This Healing?


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1. Breathing for Better Mental and Emotional Health


“The information presented is interesting and inspiring. The power of conscious breathing can't be overstated. I've benefited physically, mentally and spiritually from taking this course.”

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2. Mindfulness and The Everlasting Audience Effect

The Audience Effect: ‘The effect of passive onlookers or spectators on an individual's task performance.’

I think we could argue that mindfulness creates an everlasting audience effect of one. And it always changes your behavior for the best, because the one onlooker is the most important of all: you.

3. Your Seatbelt for Everyday Life

“It’s like when you’re flying in an airplane. Whenever severe turbulence comes along, the seatbelt keeps you from getting thrown around the cabin. Mindful breathing is your seatbelt in everyday life—it keeps you safe here in the present moment.

- Thich Nhat Hanh, Peace is Every Breath

Experiencing any turbulence in your life?

(Of course you are, you’re human 😊)

Just remember: “Mindful breathing is your seatbelt in everyday life—it keeps you safe here in the present moment.” < — 👏👏👏

4. Something That Helped Me Tremendously This Week

What Helped: Letting go while cultivating gratitude.

This was inspired by How Bad Do You Want It?, which I read and immediately re-read because it was so good.

A lesson I took from it was that the greatest athletes learn to let go of winning and instead experience gratitude for being able to compete in their chosen sport. (Paradoxically, this is how they end up winning.)

Of course, we’re all endurance athletes in the sport of life, so we can use this approach as well. I’ve consciously adopted it in two practices:

  1. While doing my morning walks

  2. While doing my morning breathing

If you feel so inspired, try it out in any activity you do:

  1. Let go of winning or any desired outcome you have.

  2. Cultivate gratitude that you’re able to perform the action.


1 Quote

What if learning how to inhabit silence and stillness and awareness—especially when you do so with kindness, with patience, and with self-compassion—is itself healing?”
— Jon Kabat-Zinn, Ph.D.

1 Answer

Category: Stress Hormones

Answer: Consistent practice of diaphragmatic breathing has been shown to reduce levels of this primary stress hormone.

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Question: What is cortisol?


In good breath,

Nick Heath, T1D, PhD
“Breathing is the compound interest of health & wellness.”


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